I'm sitting here at the keyboard
trying to figure out what I'm going to say, while Moonpi my dog paces
around my chair attempting to communicate with me. Sometimes it can
be pretty obvious what he's trying to tell me. For example, he has a
pretty specific noise he makes that says, “I've lost my rawhide
under the sofa. Get up and help me get it.” And after lunch, when
he thinks it is time for a walk, there's not much chance of
misunderstanding what he's trying to say.
For someone incapable of using words,
he's able to communicate quite a bit. I say “using” words very
specifically, since he understands a fairly large number. His
reaction to the phase “check the mail” can be scary for the
uninitiated. And he certainly knows what “stinky toy” means.
But he can't use words himself. He has
to show people what it is he's wanting. Last year we were visiting my
sister and Moonpi had to be left with her for a bit. Well, it was the
time of the morning when he usually got his “dental bone”. So he
went over to the table where his treats were being kept and looked at
the dental bones. My sister gave him a cookie. Well of course he ate
it, just to be polite you understand, but then he went back, rolled
his eyes at her and made her understand that wasn't the right treat.
Now you'd think that being able to use
words would make communication easier. But that's not necessarily the
case. Last time when I wrote my article I had something that I wanted
to communicate, but a large number of intelligent people
misunderstood me.
I was explaining about how the ten
minute play I wrote was not going to be how I would have done it. How
I had envisioned it. And somehow some people came away from that with
the impression that I was upset about that. Definitely not. Why would
I want to see it the way I had envisioned it. I'd already seen that
version. True, that was seen only in my head, but I knew what I
thought it was like.
So I was looking forward to seeing
what someone else though it should be like.
Recently I read a post on a blog I
check regularly that explained how people can react rigidly or
plastically (meaning flexible) to events in the world. If someone
reacts rigidly to something that goes against their preconceived
notions it can generate anger and frustration. On the other hand
someone that reacts plastically to events that are outside what they
expect, can actually be amused and happy when something like that
happens.
And when it comes to my writing, I
think I'm pretty plastic in my reactions to other people's reading of
what I said. So when someone reads one of my poems and sees an
analogy or metaphor I hadn't intended, I'm happy, and I look to see
it there myself. The same with plays and my other writing. I'm always
fascinated by what message people get out of these short articles
here in the Loop. Sometimes it's exactly what I meant to say. But
even when there is a misunderstanding, I get a chance to learn more
about my writing.
And that's awesome. But it seems I
should be going. Moonpi has something he wants me to do.
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