My memory doesn't seem to function
like other peoples. At least, from the way they talk it doesn't. I
don't really remember any particular Christmas. All my memories just
get all jumbled up together into just one big impression of
Christmas.
Looking at the special Christmas
catalogs from Sears or Penneys, but the pages are just blurs to me. I
can't really remember any particular sets of lights, but I remember
that we piled in the car or my grandmother's van and drove over to
neighborhoods that went all out with the lights and decorations.
And I especially remember sleeping on
cots in my grandmother's living room, next to the gas heater that
almost glowed as much as the tree in the window. There was the sound
of the rotisserie in my grandmother's stove turning all night cooking
the pork roast for Christmas dinner the next day. And the smell of
the Christmas tree.
Due to various circumstances, my
family didn't have traditions for the holidays. Or perhaps we did,
but we just changed them from year to year. Though there was a
tradition we kept up for several years. That was to trick my sister
into wrapping one of her own gifts. And another that we kept for many
years was to watch Berkeley Breathed's A Wish for Wings That Work
(1991). I can't recommend the book (even though it's basically
the same story), but if you can track down the video I think it's
well worth watching. That tradition was maintained until the video
tape wore out.
I do know that a lot of people have
the tradition of watching the movie A Christmas Story (1983).
When this comes out you'll still have a few opportunities to see it
performed live in the BeeKay theatre. So shake up tradition and watch
it there.
And however you watch it, don't just
think about Ralphie's story, but try to remember some of your own.
And then share it. My father had a decoder, kind of like Ralphie had,
but it was Commander Cody (I think), rather than Little Orphan Annie.
And I know about his decoder, even though he lost it when he was in
third grade, because he told stories about it.
For Thanksgiving we had several people
over and we shared dishes that gave us happy memories of childhood.
Were these traditional dishes? Well some were, while others we pure
memories. Some needed explanation, while others were obvious. But the
sharing of memories was a new tradition.
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